Why does some work drain you?
It's probably not discipline, and it's not the hours. Some work matches how you're wired. Most of it doesn't, and nobody ever taught us to tell the difference.
A two-minute read
Six kinds of work. Two are yours.
Lencioni kept noticing that certain meetings left him furious and flat, while others lit him up. Effort wasn't the variable. The kind of work was.
All work moves through three phases: ideation (what should we do?), activation (get people moving), implementation (get it done).
Six kinds of genius carry those phases: Wonder, Invention, Discernment, Galvanizing, Enablement, Tenacity. WIDGET.
Everyone has two geniuses (energizing), two competencies (fine in doses), and two frustrations (draining, no matter how skilled you are at them).
That's why burnout isn't only about workload. Months spent in your frustrations will exhaust you on a 40-hour week, and it will look like a bad attitude.
Teams stall the same way: a missing genius leaves a gap. Great ideas nobody vets. Great plans nobody rallies. Great starts nobody finishes.
Against the grain vs. in your genius
Tap each one. Same person, same effort, different assignment.
“Every hour costs two.”
Skilled, willing, and slowly emptying.
- Procrastinates work they're fully capable of doing.
- Ends ordinary weeks exhausted, then feels guilty about it.
- Starts doubting their own competence. So does their boss.
How it ends: a good performer labeled “checked out,” when the only problem was the shape of the job.
W · I · D · G · E · T
In work order, from first spark to finished thing. Read for yourself first, then for the gaps on your team. Tap each one open.
Run the energy audit
Five questions. Answer with your calendar in mind, not your job description. Nobody sees this but you.
1. Do you regularly put off work you're perfectly capable of doing?
2. Do you end ordinary weeks more drained than the hours explain?
3. Is most of your calendar work you're merely competent at?
4. When did work last feel easy and excellent at the same time?
5. Honestly: does your role use your two best kinds of work most days?
Answered 0 of 5
Your score changes with the season of work you're in. Re-take it next quarter.
Three moves. All small. All this week.
Read the six once and pick your two geniuses and two frustrations by instinct. Then ask someone who works with you to guess yours. The overlap is usually the truth, no assessment required.
Your frustration is someone else's genius. Find one recurring task that empties you and propose the swap out loud. Both sides usually win, and it costs nothing to ask.
Most bad meetings mix altitudes. Separate the idea conversation (Wonder, Invention) from the decision (Discernment) and the execution check (Galvanizing, Enablement, Tenacity). Watch the frustration drain out of the room.
If the mirror raised a question worth sitting with, that's the page doing its job. Take one of the three moves into this week.
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No. 04 is based on The 6 Types of Working Genius (2022) by Patrick M. Lencioni. This is our own summary. The book is worth your two hours.
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